"You always have a choice, and to not make a choice is also your choice"
Yes folks, I am going to talk about choices *again*, I am very familiar with "I have no choice" sentence as an answer everytime I asked people why they did something that I can't understand why. Not always have to be something bad, it's something that I can't think of their reason to do so.
Maybe the real reason is too complicated and private to be told. If so, then I'm sorry if I asked something that I wasn't suppose to ask, and if I do, tell me straight away, I'll back off instantly, and if I don't, remind me about what I write here :p
Anyway, back to the topic.
I always believe that we will always have a choice in our life. Always! Even when we did something that wasn't our choice, it's our choice to do that!
You can choose to do what you want, you can choose to do what you don't want, or you can choose to do nothing. It is totally up to you!
Some criminals (in the movies that I watch) sometimes always use 'I have no choice' as their reason behind their crime, in which I think is non sense, because they do know what they're doing, and they chose to do so. You get what I'm trying to say here right?
This life, your life, and my life happen based on our choices, our own decisions.
Sometimes, I think it is harder to live your life when you have more choices than when you have less choices.
You have to make a very good judgement and considerations upon your choice out of those many choices you chose not to take. Example: when you want to buy a house, our rent a place, when you choose your university, your job, new car, new phone. Those simple things that sometimes make life a bit more complicated than it should be. But overall, is that the beauty of life?
You chose something that wasn't quite right, you made mistakes, you learn from them.
Is that the main point of our freewill that God has granted to us?
What's the point of our life when we make no mistakes? Where's the fun?
Our life is like a book, we have our own story, and I just want mine to be worth the read, or maybe some more re-reads.
Lots of dramas, lots of tears, but don't forget the laughs and the smiles.
Make your choice! Be brave, be courageous, be bold.
We only have one life to live.
Make it counts!
xoxo
Ms. A
PS. I just realize how my title would be a very great line for blackberry bold advertisement. If any of RIM's marketing department staff read this and going to use this for any your BB bold advertisement, I will require an incentive. LOL
PPS. Considering on the very low number of my blog readers. I don't know what made me so confident about a RIM's marketing staff would ever get to my blog and use my line.
PPPS. Just in case they really do, I'd still require an incentive.
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